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Monday, January 03, 2005
This by far is my favorite picture as it shows the two people I love the most. Katarzyna, or Kasia (kasha), holding Alex, both smiling, both having fun. Kasia is from Poland, as many of you know, but now lives in Antwerp, Belgium with Alex. We're currently working through the Department of Homeland Security so that she and Alex can be granted permanent immigration to the States. Ever since 9/11, I believe this must have gotten increasingly harder to do. More background checking is necessary, a crapload of documentation had to be put together, and then, of course, you have multiple departments within Homeland Security that have to bless our reunion. I've done it all myself, without the help of lawyers so that I really got a good understanding of what was happening. It's been tougher than a lot of classes I took in college. It's been a long process, but we've just received noticed that we may only be "120 to 150 days away" from being a family! Why am I happy about that, well at least the end may be in sight! It's harder not knowing where the finish line is. I had a great visit (over 2 weeks) with them in Antwerp and cannot wait to get the Atlantic out from between us!
 Kasia as you can see is quite stylish, so why she was attracted to me is baffling. Doesn't like a single thing in my closet and wants to completely revamp my warddrobe once she's over here. While I think she does have exceptionally good taste, I'm quite happy with my well worn, shabby but comfortable look.
Kasia likes all types of dancing but I think is drawn to Hip Hop and Salsa. She's a great cook, although she's tough on herself. I've found one Polish supermarket up in the Suwanee area but would love to know if there's anything closer. She's become an excellent mother, regardless of her worries while carrying Alex. They are so great together. I love just watching them. It's amazing how instincts can take over. Heck, I'm not even afraid of a poopy diapers any more. When I was single, that was probably one of my single greatest fears (besides dropping a baby on the floor).
Kasia can really sprint so don't bet her money on a footrace, but doesn't really fancy cycling. So, I may need some help getting her out on the rides. I found this out as we raced to catch a bus in Warsaw one day. We're both guessing she'll be quite adept at climbing, as well. Another thing, I can't quite get the hang of. She loves shopping, music, and is looking forward to interior decorating.
I am so excited to have her coming over, and Alex of course. Being with them for two weeks and finding a daily rhythm was quite remarkable. I already miss it greatly, that and having to get back to work. It will be a unique experience to see the States through her eyes. We, as Americans living in the greatest nation on Earth, take so many things for granted, and while I notice it more with my travel abroad, she should give new perspectives every day.
Kasia, if you're listening, I love you and can't wait for you two to be with me here!
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